Sunday, May 11, 2008

Thich Nhat Hanh

Again, it's been a while since I wrote, but last week was a busy one. I had the opportunity to go on a retreat with Thich Nhat Hanh with 430 others here in Hanoi....a once in a lifetime experience.



For those of you who aren't familiar with him, Thay was born in Vietnam in 1926 and became a monk at the age of 16. During the Vietnam War, he founded a school for social workers and developed the Engaged Buddhism movement. He sided with neither the North or South and was banned from returning to Vietnam while on a peace making tour of the U.S. in 1966. He was not permitted to return until 2005 and is still unpopular with the Vietnamese government. Martin Luther King, Jr. nominated him for the Nobel Peace Prize in 1967.

His calligraphy.



He brought with him some of the monks and nuns from his three retreat centers in France and the U.S.



One of the monks leading a tai chi class.


I decided to skip the retreat for the last two days and spend Saturday and Sunday with Bill. We explored the Old Quarter of Hanoi, both by ourselves and on cyclos with a tour guide.




Our tour guide, Linda, makes it a practice of wandering into all kinds of narrow alleys and showed us old temples which many families had moved into and constructed homes. We spent the morning walking through people's living areas and they never looked up. The citizens of Hanoi do not seem to have the same sense of personal space that we have.


Monday, May 5, 2008

Trekking in Sa Pa

We took a once in a lifetime trip over the long holiday weekend: it started with an 8 hour overnight train ride due north in a sleeper car. I (Bill) think our train had square wheels. We are now like James Bond’s martinis: shaken-not stirred. My (Linda) teeth are still chattering. We arrived in Lao Cai, just across the border from China. One of our guides said that the Vietnamese cross over to buy stuff – it’s less expensive.

Our guide/interpreter was an 18 year old Hmong woman, Chee, who stands about 4 feet 4 inches tall. She held Linda’s arm during much of the 2 days. She is a huge fan of the Backstreet Boys, so she serenaded us through the 2 CDs she has access to, when she wasn’t singing a little Bob Marley. It was the only downside to whole trip.



And this is Yolanda and Begonia, two women from Spain we spent three days with. They were great companions.


We then took a van to Sa Pa, a mountain town, from which we took a trekking tour. It was described to us by the tour office manager: Day one – walk in, sleep. Day two – walk out. It was beautiful as we walked through a number of ethnic minority tribe villages (Black Hmong, Flower Hmong, Doa, and Tay), around many rice paddies, up and down mountains in a VERY rural area (very limited to no electricity). We saw no 4 wheel vehicles for ~36 hours.



A group of Black Hmong girls and women followed us for much of the time, hoping to sell us their needlework and jewelry. It is amazing to watch them scramble up and down the mountains.





After about five hours of climbing, I (Linda) had enough so I hired a young guy on a motorbike to take me to our next stop. He was thrilled. Motorbike taxis (xe om) are big in Vietnam; they are on every corner. I think I was his first customer. He wanted to engage me in a conversation the entire way down as I was reminding him to slow down and watch the road. The government is building roads in the area, but they are one lane and, like my driver said “road broken” way too often. I was so thrilled to get to the bottom of that hill. Bill and the two young Spanish women we were traveling with took the hard way and climbed down.

I waited at the house of this mom. Her little girl cried every time she looked at me for the first 20 minutes or so. The mom tried on my glasses and was so excited about being able to see. I wish I had an extra pair.




We stayed with a Tay family in their stilt house in Ban Ho. The mother of the family is the same age as me (Bill), so there were many toasts with homemade rice wine. When I asked the mother (through an interpreter) why she looked so much better than me at 52 years old, there were additional rounds of toasts. Then we had to climb 2 hand made wooden ladders to get to bed (on the wood plank floor, under mosquito netting).


This is the view of the village from the house.


This is the mom and daughter cooking our breakfast. Afterwards, the mom was slicing pieces off of a banana tree trunk which she would cook up and give to the pigs. Every so often, a group of ducks would walk into the courtyard, mom would feed them, and then gently shoo them out, when they would wander up to the next house.




Grandpa was enjoying his pipe.


The dad is a school teacher is very respected in Vietnam.




Day 2 we climbed to the top of a hill, back down for lunch, and then back to Sa Pa to check into a hotel. I (Linda) was really grateful. We enjoyed the homestay in Ban Ho, but the facilities were pretty rustic and we had been run pretty hard for two days. Not a good combination.

We saw water buffalo everwhere – in town, on the tops of mountains, on roads, on paths, at work.

This little boy was in charge of this water buffalo.

This work looked backbreaking.

Day 3 we took another trekking trip (14 km, most of it going up or down some hill) in another region. Incredible scenery. It rained like crazy the previous 8 hours so we had to take off our shoes and roll up our pants (which got wet anyways) to cross through a bunch of swollen creeks. A young (~8 years old) Flower Hmong girl followed us for about ½ the trip and really enjoyed watching us cross the creeks and slip/slide down some of the hills. She never said a word, but she had a wonderful smile and laugh. We were her TV for the week.


We passed rice, corn, and tea fields, saffron, cardamon, banana and coconut trees and houses that could only be reached by walking. It was beautiful.





The traditional clothes of the tribes are beautiful. These are from the Flower Hmong. The peddlers weren’t too bad.



This old woman did try to pull a silver bracelet off my (Linda's) arm. It was amusing to see an 80 year old, 80 pound women working to pull the bracelet off.



On the way back to the train home, our van got stuck in this village where the road had washed out. The villagers refused to help; I think we were just too entertaining. Especially watching our two Spanish friends, Yolanda and Begonia, give the driver instructions for getting out of the mud – from Spanish to English to Vietnamese. He finally had enough, managed to back out somehow, and raced through, throwing mud everywhere.




The poverty is difficult to see. We were reminded by the guide to not give money as they are trying to ensure the minority tribes do not become dependent on gifts from tourists.

We concluded our trip with another 8 hour overnight train home and now I (Bill) sit at my desk in bit of a fog after getting off the train with wonderful memories.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Perfume Pagoda

We have been gone the last 5 days and so are finally catching up. It's good to be back in Hanoi!

Wednesday was Reunification Day, so Bill and I took took the day to visit the Perfume Pagoda -- a two hour bus ride, one hour boat ride, short hike, and cable car to the top of a mountain.


There are thousands of boats and the families have a lottery to decide who gets to row tourists.





There were hundreds of little shops set up on the way to the pagoda, but it was the last day of a three month festival and they were all getting ready to go home. These animals were hanging outside one of the restaurants -- I guess as advertising.




This boat was taking some families and their merchandise. The other nine months of the years, most of these people farm.




The Pagoda is in a cave and beautiful. The Dali Lama visited last year. I really admire him for making this journey at his age.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Snake wine

Saturday was a great day. We got up early and headed over to Koto for breakfast. Great coffee and food, although the kids there giggle at us every time we try to order anything in Vietnamese. We sat upstairs looking over the Well of Clarity in the Temple of Literature. Not a bad way to wake up.

Then over Long Bien bridge to spend the day with a coworker of Bill's. Huang grew up in a village outside of Hanoi but now lives with her uncle, aunt, and two cousins. She wanted to fix us a traditional Vietnamese dinner. It was wonderful. I helped until her 16-year-old niece Tam kicked me (nicely) out of the kitchen.




Bill helped grill the pork for the bun cha. He can't quite squat forever like Huang, but he did pretty well for an American.


Huang's uncle and aunt built their lovely house five years ago. They have a business selling chicken in the market. It seems like almost everyone in Hanoi is an entrepeneur.




The meal was wonderful -- grilled pork, rice noodles, steamed rice, fresh cucumbers. We ate on the floor (Huang said that was traditional).
Huang's uncle broke out the snake wine for us. He made it ten years ago himself -- ricewine with a number of snakes stewing in the bottle. Duan, Huang's friend, said that it is much better than the stuff you can buy in the stores because they reuse the snakes. It is supposed to be good for your health, especially by men on their wedding night. And it's usually drunk by men, but the uncle insisted I try a little too. mmmmmmmm....


Then we hopped on a local bus to Bat Trang, a ceramics village. Huang says it is one of the wealthier villages because they are starting to export some of their work.


Like we've seen everywhere, people were working hard.







Huang's nephews in one of the workshops.

The kids decided they wanted to make ceramics. The rest of us (that's Huang's friend Duan with us) just sat and relaxed.



The workshop was in this woman's house. She had quite a conversation with me. It seemed friendly.